If its a matter of choice !!

Hell yeah !! marriages are made in heaven and God knows there is no such thing called heaven, if a God also exists. No, I am no atheist, Yes, i diverted from the topic.

First of all there is no comparison between a cell with a lock and a hall with open doors, as long as your crime partner is allowing you to walk free. its the same thing with marriages and live in relations, live in relations which end in a marriage is an ideal scenario. but again you are so much confident that after putting a lock, you will still be able to feel the same hall like freedom. spurious.

The hype, word ‘live in’ gets is limited. I stay here in Chicago and hardly find anyone even lifting his eyebrow on this. reason? non existence of society. they are not bound to society, its individual like i said in one of my earlier post ‘American culture, Indian culture‘. All hell doors get loose only in India (well, i am not sure of other countries, never been there).

each and every relation, needs an approval from society. things are changing in urban areas, but that is only till no one knows about it. I am still to hear a case where parents know about the live in relation of their child and are cool about it, No, none. our generation, for sure, is not the one who is going to reap the fruit.

On the contrary each and everyone of them want their child to get married. you dont even have a choice to remain unmarried as well and hell if it is a love marriage, holy cow, you are worst son your father ever got. arranged marriage, and as my friend here says, yes ‘the good boy theory‘ works perfectly. what a hypocritical society we live.

i can keep cursing, i can keep blabbering about it, forever, but when you ask which one is better, as long as the girl does not slap you with a charge of rape after your breakup, Live in relations are best way to be together till you both feel you can no longer live together.